I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out.Treasure each other in the recognition that we do not know how long we shall have each other. Grow old with me! The best is yet to be. The last of life, for which the first is made. Real giving is when we give to our spouses what's important to them, whether we understand it, like it, agree with it, or not.Love is what you've been through with somebody.